I used Aprilia RSV-R mirrors. They work great except you need to put some kind of convex stick-on mirror in the corner of them to see properly behind you. Try emailing me at rick_maher@hotmail.com if you need a picture of this.
You could check and see if the hobby shop has a matching paint for what you need but I would go talk to an automotive paint dealer and get a single stage epoxy paint that will not fade in the sun(PPG,Shopline,house of color...). They can match the color by the year and model of your bike. One thing to consider is the paint that honda uses is a two stage paint meaning that it has a base(color) coat then a clear coat over the color. If you are just doing small touch up you can make it hardly noticable with good teqnique but the only way to make it perfect when painting over a base/clear paintjob is to paint the entire fender.
Steve, I added you to my contact list. I'm not sure but I think this is how you send a P.M.. I'm gonna start looking for the airbrush tomorow/this week. I should ask the hobby store about the chems as well? Mike